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05-09-2007, 03:52 PM
I am kind of depress today ...first my DH's god-mum passed away from cancer...she had breast cancer some years ago... they treated her and tell her she is cleared and the doctor release her and never see her since.she never go for routine check either.. 21/2 years ago ... she got this joint pain near her hip... she did alot of scan and x-ray.... the cancer went into the bone... so she went to chemo-theraphy...oral...radiation etc. ... then it went to her liver... she went in and out of the new doctor office regularly... last month...she just gave it up.. when i saw her ..there is no live in her at all.. 5 years ago when i met her she is the sunshine ..she brighten our mood everytime we saw her...very chatty and joyous ! it is so hard for us to accept that we can never help her in any other way..that is so devastated for us...

she told me that she wished that we could spent more time together ...oh goosh... i sobbed uncontrollably hugging her ... i felt bad... my DH and i travelled alot and see her less often ...we felt so bad... it a wake up call for us ... now she is gone...we are glad that she died peacefully in her sleep...

spending time with your love ones are important ... 2 weeks ago i still remember when the doctor told her he cannot do no more... we were at the airport coming home...i cried the whole journey home on the plane... it shocked us that she is leaving us in 2 weeks...

I just wanted to say that her wonderful memories stayed in our heart always and she will be miss dearly !

05-09-2007, 04:26 PM
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Hugs to you, hellokitty165.

05-09-2007, 04:31 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug: I'm a breast cancer survivor.

05-09-2007, 04:44 PM
Thoughts and prayers and with you and hubby. Take comfort in each other and your memories.


05-09-2007, 04:54 PM
Thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my mom when I was 12 to what started out as breast cancer and it spread all over even in her brain at the end. My dad wouldn't let me see her at the very end which now I understand better and am no longer upset about.

Just remember the happy times you did have with her.

05-10-2007, 03:57 PM
thank you all for your prayers and love

05-10-2007, 04:10 PM
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I'm so sorry hk! :heart:

05-10-2007, 08:22 PM
That is very sad, I'm very sorry. :hug:

Denise in Michigan
05-11-2007, 12:13 PM
She will always live in sunshine in your memories and hearts!

05-11-2007, 03:05 PM
thank you all..we went to the funeral today and she will be in peace and miss by all of us ... thank you all for your prayers and love... :heart:

05-12-2007, 12:58 PM
And thank YOU for reminding us to take a break from the rat race and spend time with the ones we love while we still can.

"Live for the moments you can't put into words."