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Secksiebrat
04-26-2008, 03:26 PM
Without going into a lot of details as I'm not ready to really talk about it all yet, I miscarried the baby yesterday (Friday). I wasn't in any pain, and neither was the baby.

I had a D&C yesterday evening and I was greatful that my doctor was the one to do it and I knew one of the OR nurses.

I was able to go home last night and didn't need to take any pain pills. Today the only pain I am experiencing is where they did the spinal block (in my lower back) and of course the sad heart.

Please keep us in your prayers as we are going through a rough time. I go back to the doctor's in 2 weeks for a check up.

Thanks

Danielle

Jan in CA
04-26-2008, 03:27 PM
I'm so sorry, Danielle. :hug:

KnittingNat
04-26-2008, 03:30 PM
I'm sorry for your loss:hug:

Raeknitsnwa
04-26-2008, 03:36 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. You & your family are in my thoughts

msmelody
04-26-2008, 03:42 PM
You and your family will be in my prayers.

mwhite
04-26-2008, 03:45 PM
So sorry for your loss, sweetie and hope you'll be okay soon. Many prayers for you and your loved ones.

cindycactus
04-26-2008, 04:15 PM
Healing Prayers going your way. Hope you feel better soon.:hug:

figaro
04-26-2008, 04:25 PM
I am so sorry for your loss:hug:

Silver
04-26-2008, 04:26 PM
I'm so sorry. http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/40.gif

sue in canada
04-26-2008, 04:34 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

cdjack
04-26-2008, 04:36 PM
Bless your heart, Danielle. You and your family are in my thoughts.

auburnchick
04-26-2008, 04:51 PM
Danielle,

I am so terribly sorry. I will be praying for you and your family.

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dustinac
04-26-2008, 04:55 PM
:hug:I'm so sorry for you loss and your in my thoughts and prayers :heart:

Knitting_Guy
04-26-2008, 05:00 PM
Wow, my heart goes out to you. I am truly sorry to read this.

iza
04-26-2008, 05:04 PM
:hug::heart:

Wanda Witch
04-26-2008, 05:05 PM
I am so sorry to read of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

willowangel
04-26-2008, 05:10 PM
I'm truly sorry, I hope you can find some peace in the coming days.

jjminarcik
04-26-2008, 05:26 PM
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Dangles
04-26-2008, 05:27 PM
I'm sorry to hear of this news. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

threesmom
04-26-2008, 05:30 PM
I'm so terribly sorry. You'll be in my thoughts.

vaknitter
04-26-2008, 06:38 PM
:grphug: Hugs to you.

GinnyG
04-26-2008, 07:10 PM
I am so sorry,((((HUGS))))

Spikey
04-26-2008, 08:06 PM
How terribly sad. I am so sorry. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Knit4Fun
04-26-2008, 08:17 PM
I am SO sorry for your loss...I lost a baby last summer and can understand your pain. PM me if I can help. I will pray for you.

:hug:

Ronda
04-26-2008, 09:17 PM
I am so sorry. Wish I could hug you. I, too, have had a miscarriage so I know it's hard to handle. You'll be in my prayers.

saracidaltendencies
04-26-2008, 09:26 PM
:hug: I'm so sorry for your loss.

sabrinasmom
04-26-2008, 09:58 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs and prayers.

Mulderknitter
04-26-2008, 10:14 PM
I am so sad to hear that your are in pain and sadness. My heart goes out to you my dear

annomalley
04-26-2008, 10:18 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:

Gertie
04-26-2008, 11:49 PM
(sigh) :verysad: Yes, it is painful. You're in my thoughts and prayers as well. :grphug:

Cynamar
04-26-2008, 11:51 PM
So, so sorry. Wish we could all hug you.

Doodknitwit
04-27-2008, 12:47 AM
you are in my prayers!!

Debkcs
04-27-2008, 03:11 AM
I'm so sorry.

Karina
04-27-2008, 04:22 AM
I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. My thoughts and prayer are with you.

gingerbread
04-27-2008, 09:58 AM
:hug: So sorry for your loss. :hug:

Eccie
04-27-2008, 11:11 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:

Secksiebrat
04-27-2008, 11:25 AM
Thank you all for the kind words. This has been a long weekend. My mom was able to drive up (7 hours) on Friday night and spent the weekend with us. I'm still not ready to really talk about it all yet. I've accepted what's happend and even though I don't understand _why_ I understand it happens.
My biggest issue is now how to get over what I saw. Without going into too much detail, I actually saw the baby when it happened and it was still attached. Even at 14w5d it looked like a baby. I'm not sure exactly why I had to be the one to see it and that's what I'm dealing with now.
So one more day and another step forward.
~danielle~

mks22300
04-27-2008, 12:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. :hug:

Inis
04-27-2008, 01:14 PM
So sorry. My heart breaks for you. :grphug:

HamaLee
04-27-2008, 03:31 PM
Hugs and kisses, I'm very sorry.
:hug::grphug::heart:

snowbear
04-27-2008, 03:49 PM
Wrapping you in my bear hugs... know it was for a reason.. try not to dwell on the why.

Time will help ease the pain.. may the pain be eased soon...

Big Bear Hugs...

DQ
04-27-2008, 04:07 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

bailsmom
04-27-2008, 04:29 PM
:grphug: I'm so very sorry for your terrible loss. Please make sure to take all the time you need to heal.

Jen17
04-27-2008, 09:55 PM
Dear Danielle,
I'm so very sorry for you. You have my prayers for your family.
Big Hug,
Jen

Knit4Fun
04-27-2008, 10:47 PM
Please do make sure to take some time and heal...when I had my ectopic last summer, it happened on a Thursday and they told me I could go back to work post-surgery by MONDAY! I couldn't quite stand upright by Monday and I hadn't processed a lick of what happened and I was supposed to work?

I took a week off and felt kind of guilty even taking that much time off...but I am here to tell you that it can take far longer to process everything and heal. Not saying you need to never work or do whatever your daily routine is for a long time...just saying to truly put yourself first and HONOR yourself. I read recently that in the UK, most doctors recommend taking a MINIMUM of 6 weeks off (if you can of course) after such a traumatic event to heal...and I wish I took more time now because processing everything while in the middle of everything else is tougher. Just take things as you can and be gentle with yourself.

Everyone grieves differently and has a different process they go through...and whatever your process is, just honor that and yourself and you WILL heal. You know I am here for you. :hug:

We're here for you and so are your knitting needles! :muah:

HollyP
04-28-2008, 01:23 AM
Danielle, when I saw this thread my heart broke for you and Dh! I am so sorry for your loss. I know words can't really help with the pain but please know you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. :hug:
We'll all be here if you need us. :grphug:

Sunshine's Mom
04-28-2008, 10:57 AM
I'm so sorry. :heart:

jhelanee
04-28-2008, 11:26 AM
:heart: :heart: :heart:

msoebel
04-28-2008, 11:28 AM
I am very sorry to hear all this.

My prayers are with you.

lelvsdgs
04-28-2008, 02:01 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been through that and it is devastating. You just need to care for yourself and your heart. You and your family are in my prayers.

Abbily
04-28-2008, 02:51 PM
Danielle, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.