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04-26-2008, 03:26 PM
Without going into a lot of details as I'm not ready to really talk about it all yet, I miscarried the baby yesterday (Friday). I wasn't in any pain, and neither was the baby.

I had a D&C yesterday evening and I was greatful that my doctor was the one to do it and I knew one of the OR nurses.

I was able to go home last night and didn't need to take any pain pills. Today the only pain I am experiencing is where they did the spinal block (in my lower back) and of course the sad heart.

Please keep us in your prayers as we are going through a rough time. I go back to the doctor's in 2 weeks for a check up.



Jan in CA
04-26-2008, 03:27 PM
I'm so sorry, Danielle. :hug:

04-26-2008, 03:30 PM
I'm sorry for your loss:hug:

04-26-2008, 03:36 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. You & your family are in my thoughts

04-26-2008, 03:42 PM
You and your family will be in my prayers.

04-26-2008, 03:45 PM
So sorry for your loss, sweetie and hope you'll be okay soon. Many prayers for you and your loved ones.

04-26-2008, 04:15 PM
Healing Prayers going your way. Hope you feel better soon.:hug:

04-26-2008, 04:25 PM
I am so sorry for your loss:hug:

04-26-2008, 04:26 PM
I'm so sorry. http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/40.gif

sue in canada
04-26-2008, 04:34 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

04-26-2008, 04:36 PM
Bless your heart, Danielle. You and your family are in my thoughts.

04-26-2008, 04:51 PM

I am so terribly sorry. I will be praying for you and your family.


04-26-2008, 04:55 PM
:hug:I'm so sorry for you loss and your in my thoughts and prayers :heart:

04-26-2008, 05:00 PM
Wow, my heart goes out to you. I am truly sorry to read this.

04-26-2008, 05:04 PM

Wanda Witch
04-26-2008, 05:05 PM
I am so sorry to read of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

04-26-2008, 05:10 PM
I'm truly sorry, I hope you can find some peace in the coming days.

04-26-2008, 05:26 PM
You are in my thoughts and prayers!

04-26-2008, 05:27 PM
I'm sorry to hear of this news. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

04-26-2008, 05:30 PM
I'm so terribly sorry. You'll be in my thoughts.

04-26-2008, 06:38 PM
:grphug: Hugs to you.

04-26-2008, 07:10 PM
I am so sorry,((((HUGS))))

04-26-2008, 08:06 PM
How terribly sad. I am so sorry. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

04-26-2008, 08:17 PM
I am SO sorry for your loss...I lost a baby last summer and can understand your pain. PM me if I can help. I will pray for you.


04-26-2008, 09:17 PM
I am so sorry. Wish I could hug you. I, too, have had a miscarriage so I know it's hard to handle. You'll be in my prayers.

04-26-2008, 09:26 PM
:hug: I'm so sorry for your loss.

04-26-2008, 09:58 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs and prayers.

04-26-2008, 10:14 PM
I am so sad to hear that your are in pain and sadness. My heart goes out to you my dear

04-26-2008, 10:18 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:

04-26-2008, 11:49 PM
(sigh) :verysad: Yes, it is painful. You're in my thoughts and prayers as well. :grphug:

04-26-2008, 11:51 PM
So, so sorry. Wish we could all hug you.

04-27-2008, 12:47 AM
you are in my prayers!!

04-27-2008, 03:11 AM
I'm so sorry.

04-27-2008, 04:22 AM
I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. My thoughts and prayer are with you.

04-27-2008, 09:58 AM
:hug: So sorry for your loss. :hug:

04-27-2008, 11:11 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:

04-27-2008, 11:25 AM
Thank you all for the kind words. This has been a long weekend. My mom was able to drive up (7 hours) on Friday night and spent the weekend with us. I'm still not ready to really talk about it all yet. I've accepted what's happend and even though I don't understand _why_ I understand it happens.
My biggest issue is now how to get over what I saw. Without going into too much detail, I actually saw the baby when it happened and it was still attached. Even at 14w5d it looked like a baby. I'm not sure exactly why I had to be the one to see it and that's what I'm dealing with now.
So one more day and another step forward.

04-27-2008, 12:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. :hug:

04-27-2008, 01:14 PM
So sorry. My heart breaks for you. :grphug:

04-27-2008, 03:31 PM
Hugs and kisses, I'm very sorry.

04-27-2008, 03:49 PM
Wrapping you in my bear hugs... know it was for a reason.. try not to dwell on the why.

Time will help ease the pain.. may the pain be eased soon...

Big Bear Hugs...

04-27-2008, 04:07 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

04-27-2008, 04:29 PM
:grphug: I'm so very sorry for your terrible loss. Please make sure to take all the time you need to heal.

04-27-2008, 09:55 PM
Dear Danielle,
I'm so very sorry for you. You have my prayers for your family.
Big Hug,

04-27-2008, 10:47 PM
Please do make sure to take some time and heal...when I had my ectopic last summer, it happened on a Thursday and they told me I could go back to work post-surgery by MONDAY! I couldn't quite stand upright by Monday and I hadn't processed a lick of what happened and I was supposed to work?

I took a week off and felt kind of guilty even taking that much time off...but I am here to tell you that it can take far longer to process everything and heal. Not saying you need to never work or do whatever your daily routine is for a long time...just saying to truly put yourself first and HONOR yourself. I read recently that in the UK, most doctors recommend taking a MINIMUM of 6 weeks off (if you can of course) after such a traumatic event to heal...and I wish I took more time now because processing everything while in the middle of everything else is tougher. Just take things as you can and be gentle with yourself.

Everyone grieves differently and has a different process they go through...and whatever your process is, just honor that and yourself and you WILL heal. You know I am here for you. :hug:

We're here for you and so are your knitting needles! :muah:

04-28-2008, 01:23 AM
Danielle, when I saw this thread my heart broke for you and Dh! I am so sorry for your loss. I know words can't really help with the pain but please know you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. :hug:
We'll all be here if you need us. :grphug:

Sunshine's Mom
04-28-2008, 10:57 AM
I'm so sorry. :heart:

04-28-2008, 11:26 AM
:heart: :heart: :heart:

04-28-2008, 11:28 AM
I am very sorry to hear all this.

My prayers are with you.

04-28-2008, 02:01 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been through that and it is devastating. You just need to care for yourself and your heart. You and your family are in my prayers.

04-28-2008, 02:51 PM
Danielle, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.