1) Baby carrots sauteed in butter (lots of it) then add brown sugar to it and cook the carrots a little longer in the butter/brown sugar mixture. I hate cooked carrots but I will eat these.
2) What about eggplant parmesan or something like that?
3) Tell him that you HAVE to bring something, but that HE'S making it so he'll eat it and he better get his butt into the kitchen. You'll be happy to go to the store and get him what he needs, but he's in charge of making it. Maybe then he'll realize what a task this is and stop being so fussy.