I'm really glad to see this thread.
Last year I hung with you folks in the (now defunct) Chat Room - it was a wonderful life saver...
DH and I had a HUGE, NASTY fight and I grabbed a couple of Dottie's Toddies and retreated to my "office" and spent a really pleasant and healing New Year's with y'all.
Knitting in the New Year with fellow Knit-Wits.
PS - That was our last really violent fight (just yelling and screaming, nothing more physical than slamming doors).