Yes...I actually have suggested that. It is the same "But I really want you there" routine. And that tune has changed from that to the "if you WANT to come, you will, if you don't, you won't" attitude. So going from hopeful enthusiasm to guilt trip.
I intend to be the one that throws her shower, and goes shopping for her dress and all that fun stuff. Apparently being there is the most important thing for her...
You are right Kellyh57...I think she is totally doing it to avoid the big family thing. Unfortunately for me, I am one of those 2 good friends she wants to take with....*rolls her eyes*
Growing old is mandatory, growing UP is optional!