The envelope in the corner to indicate a message is the default, I don't think you can change it. But not everyone checks in all the time. I spend weekends at my sweetie's place, and I do log in on his computer, but don't spend near as much time online as when I'm at home. I do try to respond to messages though, and replies to my posts in the forums.
sue- knitting heretic
Last edited by suzeeq : 02-15-2013 at 04:30 PM.