good luck with that. I've been saying the very same thing for about 6 months now. My husband doesn't understand when I tell him I want "quiet time", rather than something tangible, for my birthday, christmas etc.
My youngest is 8months (also EBF). Maybe my problem is that I tack on time to sit and consume a hot cup of coffee while I am out. I dont' even really like coffee, just the idea that some day I will consume a cup while it is hot.