I definately think your daughter should approach her like the others have said. And I'm not saying your friend is like this at all, but I've found that sometimes people purposely 'forget' things like this, just to see how much they can get away with and whether someone is a pushover or not.
If a little dreaming is dangerous, then the cure is not to dream less, but to dream more... to dream all the time! - Proust
currently recruiting for the war i am waging on time, there will be many casualties, but we will be victorious