I think what's important for your hubby to remember is that he will, one day, answer to God for his actiions. I'm sure he is praying about what to do, but if he feels led by God NOT to marry them, then he has to obey God. We always feel pressure when we know the right thing to do, but others want us to do the opposite.
Stand your ground.
If your brother is so intent on getting married, he can get married in a civil ceremony.
Nathalie - AuburnChick's Adventures
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