Heh, no need to apologize to me, I was the one who was asking for the advice. no, the real question is now, do I tell him everything I've learned from you gals? I am his friend, and as tough as it is, he's easily hurt.
Wisdom is knowing what to do. Skill is how to do it. Virtue is getting it done.
That which does not kill you, isn't trying hard enough.