It can be tough being a non confrontational person sometimes. Wait, that isn't true either. I do stand up for what I believe...
Heck! I have stood up for myself here, before too! I don't understand why she is still beating this dead horse.
I suppose that is really it. Either I am being a bad friend for not going, or she is being a bad friend for not being understandable.
And Gertie, I do not think you were being hateful. It seems this topic is full of fuel no matter how you look at it!
Growing old is mandatory, growing UP is optional!