Thanks ChrissyB and cinnamon_girl for the suggestion on theknot.com. It looks to be quite addictive!
Got all my etiquette questions answered right off the bat!
I sure hope the third times a charm!
Thanks for the links, willowangel, I'll be sure to wander around those links. Anything is helpful.
Dangles, I'll send you a PM with my email addy, thanks ever so much for the offer.