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Old 10-22-2010, 09:33 AM   #11
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Michaele - as I went back and reread your original post I kept thinking of trying to drive cats. The more you try to push a cat in one direction the more it will go in any other directions.

The more a woman talks about commitment the more scared a guy gets. It isn't that we are not interested in commitment we just don't want to be pushed into it. He will more comfortable when he comes up with the idea of commitment on his own.

Don't jump into a relationship committing all to the relationship, wait until he starts committing some. Be available but not clingy. Be available on your terms not his. As he gets more involved in the relationship and more commitment then the more he gets his way, but not to the point yours are ignored.

You are only 20 and yes it is time for a committed relationship, but, old maid hood will not set in for another 20 or 30 years DON'T rush it.

I would bet that if you stop worrying about a committed relationship from a guy it will occur within 6 months.
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Old 10-22-2010, 12:29 PM   #12
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I would love to see a pic posted of you in the full kilted dress. I think is is great!
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Old 10-22-2010, 03:52 PM   #13
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I would love to see a pic posted of you in the full kilted dress. I think is is great!
Sorry the moderators object to discussing images being posted on this forum.
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Old 10-22-2010, 04:49 PM   #14
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Originally Posted by mspwrz View Post
I would love to see a pic posted of you in the full kilted dress. I think is is great!
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Sorry the moderators object to discussing images being posted on this forum.
Oh just knit a kilt and then model it to get a pic for the What'cha Knitting thread.

That is unless it would break your camera.

BTW, "The Guild" has sent notice you are being served for rule breaking.
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Old 10-22-2010, 06:25 PM   #15
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Sorry the moderators object to discussing images being posted on this forum.
I don't see how it would break the rules. You knit part of the outfit. I was interested in seeing the costume. Didn't mean to start anything.
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Discussing images or disgusting images?
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Hey! Nice to see you! It's not disgusting at all and there is not reason to remove it unless you want to for other reasons.
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We talked a lot over the past few days, and I definitely believe that he is the kind of guy that expects commitment from his women, only not so much from himself. I will not give more than I receive in the hopes that I might ensare him. I will wait, and do my best to be patient. However, if this relationship doesn't appear to be going anywhere, I'll end it, regardless of whether or not a new opportunity has presented itself. Which it has. :P But I'm a one at a time kind of girl. Tee hee.
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Old 10-23-2010, 09:35 AM   #20
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And nice photo cacunn!!! You look fabulous!
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