Happy Birthday Lori! And many happy returns of the day to you as well I'm sorry that this bit of birthday angst has struck.
To answer your question, it's been a long time since birthday angst has hit me. Like the others, if the name of today's day ends in 'y' and I'm still breathing, it's an awesome day indeed.
Hang in there, and please be good to yourself at some point in the day for a quiet celebration. A glass of wine and a good book perhaps...
