Just a footnote to you ladies whose husbands can't sleep if you are not in the same bed with them. Well, I was 34 when I married DH, always slept in my 'own' bed growing up and into adulthood. My DH snores and it drove me to distraction
as I had to get up a lot earlier than he did, something like 4:30a.m. in order to dress, makeup, hair, coffee and catch a commuter bus for a 60+ trip to work. I would go into the living room of our first little rented apartment that had a sectional sofa, and of course, would awaken with the sections apart as these were not the type sofa(s) you would probably buy for yourself. Finally, it was my decision to buy a queen-sized sofa bed and it was that or the highway out. I had to work. Since then, even on vacation in hotels, etc.,we have our own bed. Oh, just had our 48th anniversary, and believe me, the marriage would not have lasted, either divorce,
or me dead
from exhaustion back in '63. Gotta stand up for your rights, sleep is not a luxury it is a necessity to function.