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Old 04-01-2012, 02:29 PM   #1
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I seem to have a promblem FINISHING anything I start... i get all excited, spend a fortune on yarn, start a project, get a few inches done, and then find something else and the cycle continues.... my husband gets frustrated, cuz im always wanting MORE AND MORE yarn. I actually learned to knit becuz i have a VERY addicting personality and love instint gratification, which im sure u can imagine, has gotten me in trouble.. so i tried to funnel that addictiveness into something healthy. But after yrs of this im starting to get frustrated with myself, and dont want to fall back into "old habits".. any suggestions????
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Old 04-01-2012, 05:13 PM   #2
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Work on smaller projects for awhile? That way your husband can see you finish something, too.

Hats, dishcloths, fingerless mitts, soda cozies, etc...
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Jan's suggestion is a good one. Currently I have 3 sweaters, a scarf, socks, a shawl, and maybe a few other things on the needles. I get tired of one thing, switch to another and get bored with it and switch to something else....I decided the mittens could wait since it's now spring and I tend to need a deadline to finish things. One thing I find helps me finish is knowing I have a child waiting for what I'm working on. That's why one sweater gets worked on more than the others.
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Most of us do have multiple projects. I have 2 sweaters, a hat, 2 pairs of socks, 2 toys, 1 lace scarf. They will all get done eventually. Knitting is supposed to be fun so if I need to I switch projects.
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Old 04-03-2012, 08:31 AM   #5
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Same problem!
I have the same problem, trouble finishing up. Usually I have several projects underway so boredom doesn't set in. I am also the worlds worst procrastinator so I "make" myself finish one project before I get the pleasure of starting something new. The new project is my reward for finishing one up! Sort of a behavior modification thing.
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Originally Posted by susiebearsie View Post
I have the same problem, trouble finishing up. Usually I have several projects underway so boredom doesn't set in. I am also the worlds worst procrastinator so I "make" myself finish one project before I get the pleasure of starting something new. The new project is my reward for finishing one up! Sort of a behavior modification thing.
I never procrastinate. I put "procrastinate" on my to-do list, therefore I never get around to it.

There is a real satisfaction in actually finishing something. I have even made small squares to use as coasters just so I could know I'd finished a knitting project. Cheating? Oh, well, it works for me.
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Originally Posted by GrumpyGramma View Post
I never procrastinate. I put "procrastinate" on my to-do list, therefore I never get around to it.

There is a real satisfaction in actually finishing something. I have even made small squares to use as coasters just so I could know I'd finished a knitting project. Cheating? Oh, well, it works for me.
That's a good one!! Thanks for giving me some new ideas! I love the coaster thought, we "need" coasters AND it will help with my yarn stash problem as well
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I find that knitting hats and booties for hospital NICUs is a great way to use up acrylic yarn and the projects are small. You get a double payback in finishing a project (or 2 or 3...) and knowing the items are going to a good cause.
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Except for a few expenses, like lunch for work, give all your money, checkbook, and credit cards to your husband. Tell him not to give them back to you until you've finished something. No FO, no checkbook. It will motivate you.
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Except for a few expenses, like lunch for work, give all your money, checkbook, and credit cards to your husband. Tell him not to give them back to you until you've finished something. No FO, no checkbook. It will motivate you.
That would totally take the fun out of knitting. I'd never get anything done.
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