After tearing out and redoing over and over I have finally figured this crazy row (I think). The last ones were messy and not anchored very well and that is solely because I can't see straight.
Its time for a nice soak in the bath.
I want to thank all of you. The best thing I have done is to find this site and the awesome people who contribute to it. I don't know what I would have done with out your support. Your all aces and I look forward to the future now with you guys in my corner, (just warning you)