Joyce---I am so sorry about your mom's diagnosis!! You are really doing SO much--moving back nearer to her, and your dh too--getting a job nearer for you to be there for her!! I know God will give you the strength you need to give your mom what she needs!@!! It's OK, I think, for her NOT to think she has cancer....she's a fighter. Looks like you came from strong stock, Lady!! Take care of yourself, and let your friends and other family help you as much as you can!!