Urgh that blows big time! You know, all I can offer you is the same old thing most will say "it will be better in time, trust me" - 6 years ago, I lost my job - I had a case for tribunal but I never saw it through because I became deeply depressed and the whole thing pretty much devastated me. It cost me my relationship with a really wonderful man who I honestly could have spent the rest of my life with, hes the only one I've met that I ever would have (and we were trying for one) considered having a baby with. The good thing about this relationship ending when it did was the knowledge that through thin times he couldn't stick around, fair weathered friend and all. Thank goodness we didn't have that child!
The bank were foreclosing on me and were trying to force me to sell my home because of the debt of being unemployed for 6 months. They charged me for bouncing payments and they charged admin charges on the bounced payments and interest on the charges and charges on the charges till they had charged me around £600 in total.
I can't tell you how
it all worked out in the end, frankly it is still just a huge haze for me, but it did
work out and it was a long hard struggle to get there, but slowly and surely the light at the end of the tunnel creeped closer and today, no matter what is thrown at me, I know I'll cope because I was at rock bottom then. As they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I can't offer anything to you other than an ear to listen a
to hold you and in my best soothingest British accented voice to say "hon, it will
get better; hang in there we are all here for you"