Have you tried looking here at the [url+http://www.joyofhandspinning.com/]Joy
of handspinning[/url] site?
They have videos to show you how to do it all. And if you still have trouble I would suggest finding your local spinners/weavers guild. There is no substitute for being shown how to do it in person.
I am not to good at explaining things like spinning in text. So just easier to direct you to a place that would be less confusing. Just becareful spinning is very addictive.
Also when you get your first yarn made I want to see pics!