That's right PHrebecca...your dh and everyone's does their special things for you ... unexpected flowers! ...KK..having a romantic anniversary date planned...and having a hubby that soooooo appreciated his romantic anniversary breakfast!!
Most guys just think much differently than girls. I happen to have gotten a husband that thinks far differently than most men...about just about everything! He does housework & clothes, etc...not just when I'm laid up and can't do it...but just to do it! He loves to go shopping...not many men love to go shopping...Lonnie does; he picks his mom up every Sat for 'their' time together and has been doing that for years; she now stays with us every weekend...but they still spend their special time together. He is truly exceptional!!
Of course...your sweeties are exceptional, too...perhaps in different ways...we are all different...!!
Back many, many years ago, I would leave notes about things that I liked...lol! Of course, I don't do that anymore (not about gifts
...still leave notes, if u get what I'm saying
). So, if you want your sweetness to buy you something special, maybe he needs guidance...perhaps a note.."Insert name here
, I would
it if you took more interest in something that I really enjoy like :XX: knitting and I would love to take interest in state activity here
that you like! As a matter of fact, if you would explain a bit about chosen activity
, I would
to surprise you with a gift for this activity!
And maybe you could do the same for me with knitting...It would be fun to
surprise each other with stuff that I know that you like and want and that you know that I like and want....we could do that a lot....it would be fun