What's the difference with this heel turn that you like? Got a link to the video? How about a picture of your heel? I'm thinking that it sounds like a variation on the typical short row heel. Have you tried the Fleegle heel? That's what I'm going to use on my current pair but I also like the faux heel flap. I can find links if you want them. I'll be honest though, I don't like short row heels without a gusset, they just don't hold up to wear IME.
Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance...the five stages of frogging.