Coulsnt agree with you more, SIlver!
I split with my 1st hubby in like August of 1997. Met 2nd in Dec of 1997...and quit dating. Everyone told me I was going too fast, blah blah...I had my daughter to think about...
But really...when the cute guy who works at the newspaper calls you and asks you for a date, and you tell him you cant, cause you dont have a babysitter...OFFERS TO TAKE YOU BOTH TO McDs....how can you NOT like him from the get go?
We started dating, and for 2 years it was awesome...and to this very day...Im so sad that he and I didnt meet each other first.
We actually lived down the street from each other in the late 80s.