It's funny the little things that we find join us across boundaries and borders isn't it. Like something we think we must be the ONLY one who experiences something and then we realise we aren't..and I suspect that can be very reassuring. I remember cracking up laughing with a girlfriend several years ago. We had had a glass of wine, were sitting back reminiscing..and I suddenly said.. "You know, when I had pimples I used to think, if only I can find THE queen pimple and get rid of IT, the rest will go! Isn't that nutty!'
And my friend gasped and said OMG! I used to think the SAME thing..and we laughed and laughed.
And no, we never found the queen before anyone asks.