suzee, yes that is the one. I figured it out last night and did exactly what you are saying and it worked

I have completed the collar and now this thing is looking like a jacket

But now comes the SCARY part, after all it is already Halloween..... sewing in the sleeves

I put everything down in my counter top and noticed that the armholes are somewhat larger than the edge of the sleeves

I REALLY REALLY REALLY hope this is normal and it is just as it should be!! I will try to start seaming tomorrow...
