Thanks guys, the kids know he made some bad decisions. Turns out the PO made that comment, eventhough he never got a urine sample, because Kevin told him that he might pee hot because his room mate had been using meth and thc. He went in again on Thurs (I think) and gave a clean sample. He keeps telling us he's clean, but being around it, even if he didn't do it, would make his urine hot. sigh.
My aunt from SC is in town (from last Fri) through the 26th and my sis will come in on Fri night and leave Sun. we're going to have so much fun. Today's going to be my day at home to get things done (like laundry and clean house) because I haven't been home much since my aunt came in. Sat all us girls will go to Santa Fe and have a 2 hour lunch with wine and shop and have a great time! It will be so much fun. And we'll take the train so we wont have to worry about driving. I'll be the dd anyway but that's because I dont handle alcohol, I can have 1/2 a glass of wine and I'm done.